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Local Kinker
Dec. 3rd, 2009 01:19 pmI'm actually having fun poking around fetlife now that I've caved in and actually made a profile on it and everything. I'd been a little resistant to the idea honestly, mostly because the Fox and the remaining kittens are pretty active on it, and I figured it would... I don't know. Hurt isn't the right word. But I think I felt like joining up would be tantamount to chasing something I was no longer a part of, which I didn't really want to do. Happily, other than wistfully browsing through the pictures of their performances, this hasn't been the case so far.
Made me start thinking about The Scene again, actually. It's weird how my attraction to the whole kink community ebbs and flows in cycles. On one thing, I love things like the flea, and the few play parties I've been to/hosted way back when I was still part of King Bee's household were wicked amounts of fun. On the other hand, like most other scenes, one does not causally walk into it. There is drama there that does not sleep. Understandibly I've become somewhat allergic to becoming embroiled personally in that level of dramatics. But I'm still interested in seeking people out and exploring my own kink more. I feel like there's a lot to learn out there, and there's only so much you can soak up from books/the Internet. Toying vaguely with putting that I'm seeking a mentor in my brandy new fetlife profile, but have a feel that will attract mondo creepers. That and maybe asking the Angry Badger to put me in touch with Master Harley.
Also gaaaah, why isn't there something just in the five college area for kinksters?? I don't _wanna_ go all the fuck way to Chicopee just for a munch *whine* And I KNOW there are enough people for one around here, seriously.
Made me start thinking about The Scene again, actually. It's weird how my attraction to the whole kink community ebbs and flows in cycles. On one thing, I love things like the flea, and the few play parties I've been to/hosted way back when I was still part of King Bee's household were wicked amounts of fun. On the other hand, like most other scenes, one does not causally walk into it. There is drama there that does not sleep. Understandibly I've become somewhat allergic to becoming embroiled personally in that level of dramatics. But I'm still interested in seeking people out and exploring my own kink more. I feel like there's a lot to learn out there, and there's only so much you can soak up from books/the Internet. Toying vaguely with putting that I'm seeking a mentor in my brandy new fetlife profile, but have a feel that will attract mondo creepers. That and maybe asking the Angry Badger to put me in touch with Master Harley.
Also gaaaah, why isn't there something just in the five college area for kinksters?? I don't _wanna_ go all the fuck way to Chicopee just for a munch *whine* And I KNOW there are enough people for one around here, seriously.
